Does that really Matter ?

We all at some point in Life felt that it was Destiny.. we have consoled our soul saying "It was destined to happen"... Those are the times the only way we keep hope is by blaming it all on the Destiny... And if it is Destiny that controls our life then the Choices we make shouldn't matter..

Does that really matter what path you chose, what decisions you made? You might take a longer route or a different path but you would again stand at the same place....
Would that really help to put efforts into something that is destined to fail... I know you would say, "we can make our destiny by hardwork".. But, Do you believe in it ?? Tell me why is it that one person doesn't get rewards for his extreme hardwork while the other perosn is born with a silver-spoon in his mouth... Isn't it destiny ? Or, Magic of Stars ?

We raise our hands up and fall down to his feet, we pray and request and sometimes we weep... But does it really matter?? How would it change our Destiny which is "Meant to be" ?